This is a difficult disorder and information for the spouse is hard to find. This website is very helpful resources for understanding my wife's behaviour and what was happening in our marriage. The articles are well writen and from credible sources. The community discussions are more intelligent and informed than I would have expected on a message board.

I am very impressed with the resources and the supportive atmosphere at Facing the Facts. It is a valuable resource for people trying to navigate a relationship with a parent with BPD.

I found the article describing the BPD relationship and the phases it goes through very insightful - it brought clarity to what can be a very confusing situation/relationship. I particularly liked the fact that a "partner" article from the perspective of the BPD was included. This article was part of a series of articles found on Facing the Facts Web site - what a great resource to be discovered!

If you are married to a borderline person this message board is a must - people here understand and know what they are talking about. Great site!